American films have devoted much screen time to male horndogs. But when it comes to the sexuality of an under-aged girl? It's either sanitized through romance, sublimated Twilight , maligned the character of the "slut" , or lampooned American Pie. The film launches, no holds barred, with Alma masturbating on the floor to phone sex, bemusedly watched by the family dog, just as her mother arrives home. The dog's bemused expression raises canine thesping to new heights. Rabid horniness is the default state of fifteen-year-old Alma, whose fantasies range from romantic encounters with cute schoolmate Artur, to down-and-dirty daydreams about practically everybody she encounters in her small town in the Norwegian boonies. Forced by her mother to work at a grocery to pay the big phone sex bill, she even fantasizes, while sitting on a roll of coins, about the very unsexy grocer. Alma's erotic longing runs parallel with and is another facet of her passion to escape small town life -- an aspiration shared by her girlfriends. Amusingly, she dreams of going to Texas to abolish capital punishment, while a friend writes letters to a site called Prison Pen Pals which go unmailed. Along with the addled hormones of adolescence, Systad Jacobsen insightfully captures its irrationality and atmosphere of melodrama, in which tiny events assume titanic proportions.
2. Is it sweat or is my body leaking?
A quick search on Yahoo Answers brings a bunch of brow-raising questions like, do girls pee out of their butts? Yes, women can be a mystery. Read on for eight questions all women have thought of once in their lifetime.
1. Do I need to pee or am I horny?
Both Peggy Orenstein and Cara Natterson have children who — deliberately, I assume — are mentioned only occasionally in their excellent books about raising better boys. Instead, Orenstein relies on the revealing and sometimes painfully intimate interviews she conducted over the course of two years with boys aged 16 to 22, and Natterson draws from years of practical experience as a pediatrician, and her ability to boil down complicated scientific studies to their tablespoon of curative parental medicine. But the personal stakes for both authors are clear, and urgent. These writers are worried.
You got some good advice from the other posters on how to maintain contact. But I wish he would call or text me or maybe make a sweet gesture every once in awhile. This means first being clear that you want to go on a date. And you seem like a good person.