You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. He did not like the idea of early morning seminary and he told me I was old enough to make my own choice to serve a mission, but he strongly advised against it. As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. I know people should not get married if they can't accept each other as they are. Be open to the wisdom the Spirit will share. I have no control over my schedule I'm sure you all remember those daysand it kills me to know that he has moved thousands of kilometers away from our home town with me so that I can do this residency. Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married. He want to wait at least one year before he makes any decision he want to take it slow. JS married a girl her age when he was 37, after having told her that he had been threatened by an angel with a flaming sword and promising her entire family salvation if she consentedI decided to read the ces letter.
I'd just like to add that unless you're happy being with her as a full believing Mormon, don't stick around in the hopes that she'll de-convert. My sisters married to the temple served a mission etcв. I'm the kind of person that believes that it is just tacky in general to break up or end things via text, but that was my only option. Plx express what yu think as you ladies are more experienced in this stuff. To not do residency and leave medicine behind. Reading your blog has helped, especially in seeing that these lonely feelings are normal. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. Do you want to be married in the temple. All this said, God is love and fully understands and appreciates your problem.
We have known each other for many years. Now those are not the problems in my head anymore, whats in my head is how arewe goin to deal with this, ive told her sometimes u wont have anytime for me nor for your kids if we decide to have kids you wont be at the holidays nothing like that and she is always tryin to see everything positive and tells me dont worry ill schedule myself, and im like baby you will not be able to schedule urself your life would be in a hospital. You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe.
This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS. That said, Mormons have learned to have fun without alcohol and often have to wait until drinkers are well-oiled and loosened up to join in the dopey-ness. I got married last year, left a great job, family, friends and city to be with my husband in a very small under developed town. I think I handle the lonliness a little better than most because I was an only child and like having my alone time. I don't know if I want to be a single mother of four kids.