In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. Why would you behave any different now. I ask myself that every day. The fact that she's planning to go on a mission should help. I think we need to steer far away from medicine…. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. MinsPackage speaks the truth. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. But I loved this girl more than anything in life. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion.
Wife finds out, affair continues, but now he is the perfect husband, and she is the perfect wife. If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way. So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity. It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee. Good luck to you.
NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic. Righteous love does conquer all but in some cases it takes a lot longer than we are willing to wait. I told her that is noble but she would be selfish to marry and work 80 hour work weeks yet if she does marry I can not see any man who would selflessly give over decades for the sake of his wife's career. I went in thinking "oh, we can definitely do this. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. I find there are less disappointments when I know I am completely on my own. I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die. When I was 19, my boyfriend considered himself an atheist.
My new book is called, "Looking For: If he doesn't have time to pursue a relationship, and a medical resident usually doesn't, he shouldn't have done that. In many ways, she was everything that I ever wanted in a spouse, but in other ways she was not what I ever expected. We have been together since his second year of med school so I have gone through step one and step two and all the shelf exams that were taking up his time, now I have to do the 80 hours thank God for the cap and usually he works more than that Good luck to all of you and I know we will all make it. My husband gives the very best of himself to the hospital and the staff and patients every day.